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Along the Summer Drive Home by Lu Sobredo

ALONG THE SUMMER DRIVE HOME Along the drive home rising temperatures were steep and so were the winding roads surrounded by mountains and lakes. Alongside our car were trucks full of hay on the highway. We were often overrun by some sane and not-so-sane drivers. My hubby is a man for all seasons and conditions even as he discovers that growing old is no picnic. The adventurer in him keeps the music playing. As a sailor, he abides by the motto—safety first, safety second and safety last.  Made it home safely after eleven glorious days on the road. I treasured the quiet moments reminiscing about places we visited on our honeymoon 32 years before. They meant so much to us. We decided to celebrate our anniversary a month early while in the same time zone.   This travel by car (thanks sonny for the use of the comfortable Benz SUV) meant long hours on the road staying in lovely places, walking into familiar and newly discovered bakeries and restaurants. And as often the case w...
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TRAVELING ALONE? By Lu Sobredo

  TRAVELING ALONE?   In late spring 2025, my destination was Asia. A woman, of advanced age, sporting gray hair, who walks with a cane neatly tucked into the side of a backpack, I was often asked, “Are you traveling alone?”    The tone of the question amused me more times than not. Young people tended to look either in awe or in shock. Folks closer to my age would eye me with pity, sadness, or a mixture of such. My response? A modest smile, a nod and silence. Inwardly, doubt would peek in. That’s when I would strengthen my resolve and quiet the inner voice by saying to myself, “You can do this.” When doubt nudged in, I was comforted by the knowledge that a loved one would be meeting me on the other side of the journey.    WHEELCHAIR SERVICE IS A GODSEND Thank goodness for a world wherein airports have wheelchair service. Passengers needing assistance have grown in numbers since the first time I needed to use the service in 2016. It was the first time I coul...

The Adrenaline Drop by Lu Sobredo

THE ADRENALINE DROP Needing rest after a vacation is familiar to most. What others may not know is this need multiplies when you have rheumatoid arthritis (RA).  After 11 days of meaningful and joyous road-trip, we arrived home Friday night. By mid-morning on Saturday we’re getting dressed to attend an event in Fremont, California. I joined hubby at his encouragement because I wanted to see my friends who would be there for sure.  Adrenaline works wonders.  I’m sure I had it in spades during the trip. I make peace with the pain from my RA. Medications lessen or mask the intensity but the pain is with me all the time. I treat the pain like appendage or an uninvited guest that we still welcome with care.  Extending my party-status a day delayed the bedrest I had planned. I underestimated the effects of the adrenal drop. I could manage the bathroom necessities as well as ensure I hydrate sufficiently.  But getting out of bed for those reasons is like squeezing f...

Mix and Match for Travel by Lu Sobredo

  MIX AND MATCH FOR TRAVEL By Lu Sobredo The years of travel have taught me not to overpack.  I continue to learn to trim more from my suitcase to make room for new finds.  New Finds During Travel This spring/early summer travel to Spain in 2024 was different as I had to travel solo from California while hubby traveled from Asia via the Middle East to meet up in Madrid. I had tcheck in a duffle bag that contained hubby’s backpack and other essentials for his planned 5 t hike on the Camino de Santiago (his fifth), items from our home in the U.S. Outside of that, I usually travel light with a carry-on roller suitcase and a small backpack housing my prescription medicines and other health-related supplies. In previous travels, I carried a tote bag to hold my medicines. I dropped that, realizing a reliable backpack could also hold my laptop, a convenience when going through airport security check. I travel in discomfort not because I choose economy air travel. My incurable, a...

Treasure-Find in Spain by Lu Sobredo

 TREASURE-FIND IN SPAIN By Lu Sobredo The meshing of the modern and of the medieval. That is Toledo, Spain. That was my takeaway this Spring 2024. The rays of the setting sun bathe the hillsides. Artful shadows form on one structure onto another accentuating contrast between light and dark. A transformation that still takes my breath away. Toledo, Spain has captivated my imagination since I was introduced to this photogenic medieval city in the summer of 2010.  We mostly took day trips in the earlier years of our visits. In 2021, it was time to splurge a little and stay a few nights at the Parador de Toledo, a monastery turned hotel in the old city. The lone structure that sits the highest almost atop the hillsides. The view of the Parador from the city center at night is ethereal with multiple windows illuminated, appearing like eyes from the past peering at the grandeur of the old city below. A photographer’s dream: my husband was in his element. A dreamer’s dream come true ...

Conflicted or Brain Fog by Lu Sobredo

 CONFLICTED OR BRAIN FOG? by Lu Sobredo It had to happen in February In the shortest month of the year When the weather does its best imitation Of indecisive magician. It’s winter coat weather at night And early morn Yet the afternoon sun beats on the skin With a vengeance for a short spell To announce spring is coming. Fickleness surrounds fragility. And in my head, fog floats in. But unlike the iconic fog Over the Golden Gate Bridge, A photographer’s dream shot, My brain fog is my personal nightmare. Not to be mistaken for dementia, thank God But disturbing, nonetheless,  Making one forget to connect to virtual meetings Or take daily anti-inflammatory dosage of pills. Yes, my loyal health conscientious friends, I eat and drink anti-inflammatory food routinely  To help me as well. Naturally. Ah, but the numbing pain later in the day,  a potent reminder that natural treatment is not enough. A reminder of what I had forgotten. But wait, did I forget? How would I know ...